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The Price of Intimacy: Should Parasocial Relationships Be Monetised?

As emotional attachment becomes a commercial asset, the monetisation of parasocial relationships raises questions about the ethics of profiting from perceived intimacy.

Nov 10, 2026 | By Ashley Tan Peishan
Korean boy band, Stray Kids “DominATE” world tour stop in Mexico. Image courtesy of JYP Entertainment.

The relationship between audiences and the personalities they admire, spanning from K-pop idols and celebrities to social media influencers and content creators, has become a valuable commodity in the current digital economy. What was once expressed through admiration, fan letters and occasional public appearances has evolved into a commercial ecosystem where personal access, exclusive interactions and emotional familiarity can be purchased. While these arrangements present new commercial opportunities, they also raise an ethical question:

Should businesses profit from emotional attachment by selling the audience the promise of personal access and intimacy?

As audiences develop one-sided attachments to their favourite public figures, paid interactions can create expectations surrounding personal attention and affection that may never be reciprocated. While the act of charging for exclusive access is an actual business practice, encouraging audiences to become emotionally reliant on these interactions raise concerns about whether perceived intimacy should become the new strategy for generating recurring revenue.

According to Goldman Sachs Research, the global creator economy was estimated to be worth US$250 billion in 2023, with projections suggesting it could reach roughly US$480 billion by 2027. While this encompasses a broad range of digital businesses, its expansion reflects the growing commercial influence of individuals who have built audiences around their personalities, lifestyles and creative work.

Central to this development is the concept of the parasocial relationship: a term describing the one-sided emotional connections individuals develop with public figures. These relationships may not necessarily be reciprocal, the repeated exposure to someone’s personal experiences, opinions and everyday routine can create a false sense of familiarity that borders on genuine friendship. Social media has made these connections particularly accessible, allowing audiences to engage with public figures in ways that were previously unimaginable.

The Business of Being Close

The commercial potential of parasocial relationships is evident in the popularity of subscription-based platforms. Services such as Patreon allow creators to offer exclusive content, personalised experiences and direct engagement to paying subscribers and within the entertainment industry, South Korean platforms such as Bubble and Weverse offer similar opportunities to connect with their favourite public figures. Bubble offers paid artist messaging services–where on the audience end, it looks like a private conversation whereas on the artist end, it works similarly to a group chat. Weverse on the other hand. provides exclusive content, fan memberships and paid communication features.

Bubble subscription for different K-Pop idols.

These platforms demonstrate how the desire for greater access has developed into a commercial model built around audience loyalty and emotional familiarity. The financial significance of this model can be seen in Bubble’s commercial performance. According to its parent company DearU’s 2025 financial disclosure, the platform generated approximately US$62.029 million (KRW 82.9 billion) in annual revenue, while recording an average of 2.04 million subscriptions in the fourth quarter. These figures demonstrate the commercial value of paid interactions, particularly within the K-pop fandoms, where audiences are willing to pay for continued access to their favourite artists.

For creators, these arrangements offer sustainable sources of income beyond advertising and brand partnerships while audiences gain access to exclusive content and experiences. On platforms such as Bubble and Weverse, these features also allow fans to receive updates, photographs and messages. As these interactions become integrated into part of their daily routine, this gradually becomes a source for companionship, comfort or emotional reassurance. The possibility of losing that perceived connection may encourage continued subscriptions, even when the relationship remains fundamentally one-sided.

When Engagement Becomes Exploitation

While audiences may willingly pay for exclusive content and personalised experiences, the ethical implications become more complicated when the perceived value of these services depend on the promise of personal intimacy.

A subscription may provide access to content or communication features, yet audiences may attach greater significance to the possibility of being personally recognised by someone they admire. As audiences become reliant on these interactions, maintaining a subscription may feel necessary to preserve this parasocial relationship and the idea of losing access can influence spending decisions, particularly when audiences believe continued financial support will bring them closer to their favourite public figure.

Bubble subscription chat with HAN from Stray Kids.

Businesses that profit from these attachments also carry responsibility for how their services influence audiences expectations. Although emotional attachment cannot always be controlled, deliberately encouraging dependency to sustain subscriptions would place commercial interests ahead of the wellbeing of paying audiences.

Nonetheless, monetisation does not inherently imply exploitation. Audiences have long demonstrated their admiration through other financial support, be it through purchasing concert tickets, collecting merchandise or attending exclusive events. Paid digital interactions can be understood as an extension of these practices, particularly when the nature of the exchange is communicated transparently.

The difference lies in what is being commercialised — exclusive content, entertainment and opportunities for engagement offer identifiable value. Emotional affection, however, cannot be guaranteed through a financial transaction. When the expectation of personal intimacy becomes central to a service’s commercial appeal, the distinction between audience support and emotional exploitation becomes difficult to maintain.

Image courtesy of Unsplash.

The Price of Personal Access

The consequences of monetising perceived intimacy also extends to the expectations placed upon public figures. For some audiences, paying for exclusive interactions creates a sense of entitlement to greater access to a public figure’s personal life, including their relationships, private activities and decisions.

This creates tension between the rights of public figures to establish personal boundaries and the expectations of paying subscribers. Unlike conventional entertainment purchases, subscription-based interactions can encourage the perception of an ongoing personal relationship. Audiences who have invested both emotionally and financially may believe their support warrants greater transparency or involvement in the lives of those they admire.

These expectations become complicated when public figures choose to withhold personal information and in more extreme circumstances, audiences may interpret these decisions as a lack of appreciation for their financial support — pressuring public figures to disclose more than they are comfortable sharing.

Fans at a concert. Image courtesy of Pexels.

While exclusivity has long carried commercial value within celebrity culture, digital platforms have introduced more frequent and personal forms of interaction. However, paying for access to someone’s content or communication does not grant ownership over their personal time, relationships or decisions. Financial contributions should not be mistaken for a right to personal intimacy.

Redefining the Value of Connection

The monetisation of parasocial relationships reflect a broader transformation in how audiences engage with entertainment, celebrity and digital culture. These connections can provide enjoyment, inspiration and a sense of belonging. While paid communities offer opportunities for audiences to engage with others who share their interests.

However, the value of these relationships should not depend on cultivating emotional dependency or serve as an encouragement for the audience to believe that personal affection can be purchased. Businesses must distinguish between providing paid access and profiting from the expectation of emotional reciprocity. Transparency about the nature of interactions and realistic expectations of accessibility should extend to how these services are designed and marketed.

Image courtesy of Pexels.

Ultimately, parasocial relationships can be monetised, provided emotional dependency does not become the product being sold. As the creator economy continues to expand, commercial success should be measured by the ability to offer genuine value while respecting the personal attachments that make these relationships commercially attractive.

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